That sucks. One of my local HD dealers is super cool. They still have Buell posters up and the owner and his kid used to race them. They are super helpful ordering parts. Never tried them on service.
Can you take the wheels off yourself? Just about any M/C shop will mount and balance the wheels if they are off. Should be around 35-60 bucks tops to mount and balance. Taking a bike into a dealer to have wheels removed and tires mounted that you didn't buy from them will yield different results anywhere. Same goes with a car or truck.