I'm sure many, including myself, would disagree on the interactive exhaust being a stupid feature. It's actually very clever and practical. The only achilles heel to that system was that the exhaust had to comply with noise restrictions, which hindered some top-end horsepower potential.
Yes, our engines can temporarily hesitate if you radically crack open the throttle. There are several parameters in the ECM that can be tweaked to lessen the lag, such as the Acceleration Enrichment Duration and a few bits in the Acceleration Enrichment Config flag, and the Acceleration Enrichment table itself. But the best solution might be to just slightly alter your driving habits.
Being a 2009 model, I will assume all your sensors are operating properly and that you have taken a look at the spark plugs just to confirm they look healthy.