Originally Posted by
Chicknstripn
You should be able to use a pick tool to actually pull the female connectors in question from the relay box. Once you do that I would suggest lightly squeezing them with needle nose pliers. This should restore the right fitting connection you are missing.
I would suggest you do this one wire at a time. That way you won't put one back in the wrong place.
This will also give you a better look at the female connector to insure the wire is attached properly.
Hopefully this is the piece to the puzzle you are missing.
Good luck