Success!

Uninstalled ecmspy
Removed profile for buelltooth adapter
Rebooted
Installed driver
Installed ecmspy
Paired buelltooth
Changed com port from default com40 to com9
Used ecmspy autodetect port, found com9 and connected!

I've backed up my eeprom and saved in on 2 computers and a flash drive for safe keeping.

Tomorrow I plan on trying the stock and race map just for fun, see if it runs a little smoother on the low end.