Ok, followed what you instructed lunatic...
All 3 relays out, kill switch off, turned key to on.
Dummy lights came on, headlight/taillight came on, needles swept.
Inserted key switch relay, ignition fuse blew and everything went off.
Running to autozone cause that was my last 15a fuse, need some more and I guess I'll pick up some relays while I'm there?
So thankful for help guys...feel like I'm making progress!